I was married to this woman for 14 years and we’d go six months without sex. I would act on impulse, I would blurt, I just didn’t hold back. I’m going to be really nice to you so that you’ll like me and want to be my girlfriend and hopefully get naked.īut I went out and just started being me. So I started reading books and watching DVDs on dating and relationships and I just went out and just started interacting with women with no agenda. And I thought historically I’m not a very good picker, and I’m not a very good ender, so if I want something different in my life relationship wise, I’ve got to learn how to date.

Nice Guy came out and I got out into the dating world in my mid to late forties. I used that strategy for the first several years of my life, and although I did get into relationships, I got into relationships that were built around me basically putting up with everything that the woman did, with me trying to fix it and make it better, so that I could have a relationship and get love and sex and my needs met. I thought I had to go really slow with a woman I liked to let her get to know me, to let her get to see that I’m a nice guy, that I’m not a jerk like the other men that my mother complained about, or that I’ve heard all the other women complain about, and then they’ll like me and want to be my girlfriend. Robert Glover: Well I lived the first 40 or so years of my life with this nice guy mentality, and I thought that women just weren’t interested in me and didn’t like me. Michael Frank: Why is it specifically that women aren’t attracted to nice guys?ĭr. Let’s begin: Why women aren’t attracted to nice guys The 5 ingredients of the great cake of life.How to recover the frame if you’ve lost it.

Changing the self-image of the nice guy.

Creating P.E.T – Positive Emotional Tension.

Why women aren’t attracted to nice guys.

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